Glenna Gillilan (adamsglamcougar) wrote,
Glenna Gillilan
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Will I always go through life feeling like I don't really belong? I gave up trying to get together with old school friends and people like that long ago. They'd say, "Yeah, we'll do something soon", but nothing ever came of it.

I became a Glambert because of Adam's music and who he is, just like y'all did, but I was also hoping to make some real friends in the fandom, too. After all, "We Are Glamily", right? And I have met some wonderful people... although none of them seem to live in Dallas, or if they do they're not interested in making another real friend. That's the only thing I can think. The only other reason I can think of is that it is me -- that there must be something about me that turns people off and sends them running even before they get a chance to really know me. And for the life of me, I can't figure out what it could be.

I mean, even my new friends at Bonhoeffer House -- I can hang out and meet them there, but they won't invite me anywhere to do stuff. They are trying to come up with ways to make me feel more a part of things (after I told Ryan that's what I wanted), but still...

I just get so bored sitting at Starbucks all day, or sitting on the porch at Bonhoeffer, or sitting at the church... I want to be doing something, but I'm afraid of seeming like I'm pushing myself on people.

Ah, my needinesss... that's another entry for another time...
Tags: depression, friendship, loneliness, neediness

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